Looking for my forever Daddy.
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Looking for love on a kink site. Is that taboo all in itself?
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Vanilla dating sites aren’t doing it for me and the red vests have caught on to me hanging out in the lumber and rope aisles on my lunch hour. I have no clue where to meet actual people in my area, and I’m disheartened by the number of men who will even make eye contact with me in public.
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Not looking for a play buddy, FWB or anything else casual. Not into poly/ENM. Looking to meet new people of a similar mindset and see where it goes, but dating with intention of a long term D/s relationship. I keep hoping to bump into him in the bread aisle but no luck there either, and quite frankly I’m dying to use a witty pun about buns to get his attention.
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I’m mid 40’s white female, short, average build. By day I’m professional, independent, responsible, traditional and conservative in my values, actually pretty nerdy, and very VERY busy. Lady by day….
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By night, honestly I’m just ready to put that stuffy bitch in the closet. I’m naturally fun, witty, warm, playful, empathic, sarcastic AF, a dark and dirty sense of humor and love to laugh. I love being a woman and embrace my femininity, and honestly what today’s society deems “chivalry,” I consider bare minimum. I don’t need big lavish gifts, but I do always need to feel like a queen on your arm. Manners matter!
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I love reaction, sensuality, vocalism, and implements of all sorts. At the end of a long day what I lack in creativity, I make up for in saucy playfulness and eagerness to please and try new things. I’m newer to bdsm and haven’t tried nearly everything, but I’ve enjoyed most of what I’ve experienced so far.
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As you can imagine, I lean heavy on the submissive side. Definitely not the “little” type, but a pretty collar…idunno it summons something. I’ve also discovered I’m a bit of a masochist and with that, I require a great deal of trust to get there. Communication and connection are key for me, again I’m looking for long term.
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Really, I just wanna be super kinky with my love and best friend. Am I totally off my rocker here?
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My typical preferences are male, 40-50ish, strong slow hands, decisive country boy with a big fun personality and can carry a lively conversation and laugh with me. I love a good clean beard, dirty boots, and need a high libido to match mine. Adventurous, a lil primal, Daddy gentleman type Dom (love them all) with a kinky imagination, emotionally available, versed in D/s or willing to work to grow in that area. Ethnicity doesn’t matter but attraction is a must and a ginger will catch my eye by default every time.
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Oh, and sexting is for kids who lack means, motivation, and/or mobility. Treat me like a lady when you’re “flirting” until I give you permission otherwise, and please read your audience. Two adults should be able to talk about sexuality while getting to know eachother without you trying to virtually have sex with me. Means, motivation, and mobility, important stuff.
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Also, while I realize that I’m about to drain my little pond down to a puddle, long distance is not for me. I just don’t have the time to devote to traveling right now because life.
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If this describes you (or someone you know? Help a *** out!), I would love to hear from you. ?
